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I help people 30+ Find their Soulmate.

Let's remove your blocks — and uncover your deeper answers.
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ABOUT ME
Hi, I'm Tommy D

I'm an Energyworker, and

For over 5 years, I've guided spiritually-aligned individuals beyond surface-level dating struggles to discover what's truly blocking their path to deep, lasting love.

My clients come to me when conventional approaches have failed—when they sense something deeper is at work. Together, we identify and release the energetic patterns preventing their most fulfilling relationship from materializing.


If that's you — you're in the right place.

Something is blocking you from the soul-aligned partnership you want.

Would you like to find out exactly what that is?

You didn't find me by accident. You're here because you feel it—something isn’t clicking in your love life.

And...no matter how much work you’ve done, how many 'manifestation' books you’ve read, how much effort you’ve put in… something still feels out of reach.

It's finally time to shift that.

Do you resonate with these 'signals?'

If you've arrived here, you likely recognize yourself in some of these patterns:

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The Search feels Unending...

You've had countless dates, tried multiple apps, and travelled all over the world —yet deep, lasting romantic connection still feels elusive. You're done with searching and ready for love.

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The 'Divine Timing' has hit Snooze.

The spiritual advice to 'just surrender' feels increasingly hollow as time passes. You want to meet someone aligned now — to explore life and build together.

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You've become trapped in 'perfectionism'.

You're constantly 'working on yourself', tweaking your bio, or worrying about details of your personal appearance — on a never-ending journey to be 'change' something.

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People aren't meeting you half-way.

Your relationships and connections follow the same confusing patterns. Each exhausting 'false start' and 'dead end' leaves you wanting to trust less. (Seriously, what's happening?)

 

Ask yourself whether any of these resonate for you...

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If you're nodding saying 'yes'...

Then you may be experiencing misalignment. 

It's at this point where our authentic romantic path slips away.

We start to measure ourselves against the timeline of our closest friends, who are getting married etc.

And with this pressure, we often rush to settle ourselves for 'good enough' — leaving our lives feeling permanently unfilled.


But that's not why you're here.

You're here because something within you knows there's another way...

Here's how I help you.

As an Energy Worker, I go deep with you to find the real answers.

To unearth the deeper rooted patterns, beliefs, and emotional blocks that are shaping your love life—often without you realizing it.

And to provide tools and space to heal, shift and release these.

I want to guide you back to your divine nature—the place where authentic attraction naturally emerges. And to your truth of what's happening in your romantic life — which can be found underneath the stories and beliefs you carry.

Eye opening and powerful.

It was a profound experience of exploration, healing and making necessary shifts. 

Tommy is very committed to his mission...You feel really cared for the entire time. I have always felt inspired after sessions, because Tommy has incredible presence and knows how to connect with you on a deep level.

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This session is for you if:

 

  • You keep attracting the wrong people—or no one at all
     

  • You feel like you’re “doing everything right” but love still isn’t happening
     

  • You’ve secretly lost faith in deep, lasting & authentic relationships but something inside you refuses to give up
     

  • You’ve done personal growth work, but your love life still feels stuck
     

  • You’re tired of guessing what’s wrong and want real clarity

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It's Time to Step Out of the Ocean

Your problem isn't found in the external world. Your problem is being create at the energetic level.
 

In our 1:1 sessions, I help mirror your real answers:
  • Identify your invisible blocks — Uncover the paradigms that have kept you swimming in circles

  • Shift your energy — Move from effort, chasing and struggle to alignment and flow

  • Find clarity — Get clear on who you're truly looking for & why. And why you haven't found them yet.

  • Embody love — Stop searching for love and uncover your unlived truth. Start aligning to the love you seek
     

This isn't about strategies, tactics, or quick fixes. It's about a fundamental shift in how you approach connection (and yourself) —one that transforms your entire experience of dating and relationships

You become able to create new timelines, attract new situations — and immediately feel your romantic journey becoming ‘unstuck’.

If you're willing to get deeply curious in your romantic life.

If you're called to untangle stories and step into your power.

If you're ready to uncover your essence & potential — and find your soul partner with renewed energy.

It'll be my highest honour to serve you.

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Here's what others on this journey are saying:

"I was convinced my personal situation was unfixable, and then a friend introduced me to Tommy. It was worth its weight in gold (or even diamonds!). I hadn't realised how deep in patterns I have been my whole life. This has been an amazing opportunity to explore and finally break free ❤️"

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Your 'Soulmate era' is arriving...
(you are the divine timing)

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Click below to book your call now.

(Bali spots are limited — so if this resonates, don’t wait.)

FAQs

Q: I've tried self-help before, even manifestation. How will working with you be different?

Most self-help and manifestation methods focus on surface-level techniques or copy-and-paste frameworks. My approach is deeply intuitive and personalized—it’s not about following generic steps but about truly understanding your energy, patterns, and alignment.

 

I’m here to serve you, not to please. This means we’ll dive into the real shifts you need, even if they challenge your current perspectives. Expect a journey of self-discovery that goes beyond traditional self-help methods and helps you unlock clarity and transformation in a way that truly resonates with you.

Q: I'm actually already in a committed relationship, can we still talk?
 

Absolutely. This is a judgment-free, confidential space where you can explore what’s really going on in your romantic life.

 

If you’re feeling out of alignment, uncertain, or disconnected, our session can help you gain clarity and understand the deeper dynamics at play. More than just insight, you’ll walk away with a clear sense of what you truly need to create a fulfilling and aligned future—whether that means deepening your current relationship or completely re-evaluating your path.

Q: Do you offer more focused containers?

 

Yes. If you’re looking for a more immersive, long-term container for transformation, I offer deeper coaching experiences designed for profound shifts. You can explore my extended programs and offerings below to find what aligns best with you.

I encourage you to take a 1:1 session first to get a sense of how we work together and see if we're a right fit.

If you're ready to uncover your final blocks, clear patterns & find your real answers...

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Click below to book your call now.

(Bali spots are limited — so if this resonates, don’t wait.)

OTHER RECENT SUCCESS STORIES

“I was skeptical at first, but this turned out to be the best decision I've made this year. After our sessions, I gained a new perspective on love and relationships. The guidance provided was truly transformative. I recommend to Tommy and his unique approach to everyone. ”

Alexis Thompson

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What If The Most Important Answers Have Been Within You All Along? 

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You don't need 'dating advice'.

I've witnessed first-hand the immediate life-changing shifts when you obsess less about words & physical appearances — and more about the deeper, energetic truths of what’s showing up in your romantic life.

Recognising that hidden underneath your 'dating life' is a spiritual journey brings so much clarity. It invites deeper reflection — in what ways are you approaching your romantic life as a divine being, and in which ways as a fearful human?

Our conditioning, created by the noise of cosmopolitan modern dating often bring us to the latter. Yet it remains within your own power to awaken from this — and to begin to heal the hidden beliefs, habits and energetic blocks getting in the way of your relationship manifestation. Your romantic life is a reflection of your unlived truth and...


You must become a soulmate to attract one.

Which is why I often remind my clients: it's not your job to find a partner — that's the job of your universe 😉

Your job is to create alignment between 'you' and the version of you that is soulmate-compatible. 'Divine timing' was always yours to play with — the real journey is mirror.

It's time to reclaim your sovereignty.

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